Hello my loves! Welcome back to the blog. It’s been a minute since I’ve been on here. Truth be told, I’ve been distracted by all the shiny things that are social media and reels. But when it comes down to it, I realized that I PREFER long-form content. I like writing long blog posts and …
Aligning Your Self Image (part 2)
Hello again my love, Welcome to part 2 of the self-image series! This is where I talk to you about collapsing time. You ready? If you follow me elsewhere, I’ve been talking a lot about “quantum dating.” Basically, what I mean by that is to date from a place of actually combining your past with …
12 Lessons from One Year of Marriage
Hello my loves, In celebration of my one year anniversary (technically on Sunday,) I want to share some lessons I’ve learned from being married that I hope will help you both have something to look forward to, and some skills you can start practicing now! Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or you’ve been married …
Want to Know Who Really Makes The Rules?
Over and over again, I’ve been repeating: stop assuming peoples’ intent. Don’t assign intentions. Stop creating stories. And it all epitomizes with the idea that we’re all playing the dating game according to rules established by those LEAST likely to successfully date… When it comes to dating–communicating boundaries and identifying those who will adhere to …
Are You Too Serious About Dating to Date Seriously?
In a culture so focused on marriage, have we put too much pressure on ourselves when it comes to dating? I have seen over and over, people getting in their heads and psyching themselves out of even spending time with anyone. Stop looking at everyone as your potential spouse. Your first date is not about …
Stop Dating People Who Are Taken
While you may think it seems inherent NOT to dating people who are unavailable, you are doing it all the time… Imagine it’s summer term and a regulation hottie moves into the ward. They are cool, attractive, and just elusive enough that you can’t help but want to chase them. (Probably like everyone else will.) …
How To Have Better First Dates
It’s a commonly held belief that a first date should be casual, cheap, and short. But how can you really get the most out of them? Dating is an INVESTMENT. Look at every first date in business terms: long term investments are made with a certain amount of money that grows over time. Your summation …
Do You Date Like it’s Your Job?
Obviously dating IS my job, (that’s the nature of being a dating coach.) What you may not know, however, is why you need to be applying one KEY principle to both your work life and your dating efforts to achieve true success: VALUE You can have money, accolades, and as many hunnies as there are …
What Does “Busy” Really Mean?
Communication is key. Everyone knows that–even if you don’t practice it or have that skill. You still recognize the importance of it. And yet, you are surrounded by people and circumstances where it seems like everyone gets ghosted. It’s an interesting phenomenon, and it’s lead to something even more damaging: assigning intentions to someone else’s …
Formula of Attraction
Obviously, everyone wants someone that they have chemistry with. And chemistry is all about formulas. So what is the right formula? What factors contribute to that chemistry? Largely in line with Stephen R Covey’s 4 Dimensions of Being (see 7 Habits of Highly Effective People,) there are essentially 4 “levels” or variants of attraction. Look …